You are a man without complexes, you are used to boldly go forward, experiment and enjoy everything you do. And of course, sex has never been ruled out of its priority list. But your favorite is a notorious conservative. And the slightest hint of "innovation" meets with hostility. How to help him get free? How to make it clear that, if you are not boring, it is only a plus in your relationship? Do not pout on a partner, blame him for all sins. After all, sex [...]
You are a man without complexes, you are used to boldly go forward, experiment and enjoy everything you do. And of course, sex has never been ruled out of its priority list. But your favorite is a notorious conservative. And the slightest hint of "innovation" meets with hostility.
How to help him get free? How to make it clear that, if you are not boring, it is only a plus in your relationship? Do not pout on a partner, blame him for all sins. After all, sex for men is one of the most painful areas. Feeling that he is not happy with a partner is something worse and cannot be! Therefore, before taking offense or dragging him by the ears to the paradise of free initiative, figure out what is the reason for his tightness. Having found out, it will be much easier to come to success.
Be considerate, because sexuality for a man is a sore point
1 As a student
Your lover is a very successful man. Own business, leaps and bounds going forward, profitable contracts, millionth deals. Or brightness, originality of talent. But in order to achieve this, he always devoted all his attention to business realization. Sex issues somehow remained out of sight. And when peers spied on the girls, savored the details of secretly seen adult films or tried to repeat the somersaults read in the Kama Sutra, he learned the basics of entrepreneurship or creativity. You can’t tear, really ...
Now this ignorance comes to him sideways. He would be happy to do something else: change his position, try bold intimate toys or other experiments, but ... suddenly he will do something wrong? After all, to look stupid - this is not a dream in a nightmare!
The solution is simple - become this “stupid" yourself. With a shy awkwardness and full confidence that he is a cool and skilled macho, ask for advice, suggestion, show how to behave if ... (insert the description of the required experiment further). Men love to help and teach: this is what you will play. At first, of course, you have to portray inexperience, mistakes. But together you will certainly learn quickly!
The sacred meaning of sexual intercourse between people
Mehdi Ebragimi Wafa, winner of the third season of the Battle of Psychics project, shares his opinion on the role of sexual relations for the family.
2 Joy or dirt?
The worst case is when conservatism hides a deeply hidden belief that sex is dirt, it’s rude and animal. In general, decent girls do not behave like that. This is usually based on childhood experiences: trauma or simply parental suggestion. But after all, the farther from the parental threshold, the more likely it is to understand that you are mistaken.
Often pay the attention of your partner to what joy brings just ordinary flirtation, light kisses, touches, tenderness. And he gradually thaws. And if the situation is really unpleasant, consult a sexologist. And yet - why not turn this very conservatism into an exciting game? Provoking innocence, not allowing even a hint of the existence of sex - what could be more erotic? Tease his imagination by constantly slipping away - for example, at a party with friends. Returning home will put everything in its place ...
Be careful with the initiative, otherwise the husband will be frightened and withdraw into himself!
3 Kings plays retinue
Each of us has his own sexual temperament. One is ready ten times a day, for another ten times a year is enough. So nature arranged them, and there would have been nothing terrible in this if ... If not for the cult of such machismo, propagated in our time. What to do to poor "weaklings"? They have to comply with all their might so that no one in them suspects this.
If the nature of your beloved has cheated by bright bedding abilities, you will be helped to perfect the technique of erotic games. After all, a skilled lover can bring a woman to several orgasms, before (or after) after he enters the game himself. True, you first need to understand what you really like. And then, by all means, push your loved one to tighten the foreplay and precisely these actions. To do this, carefully seize the initiative and act yourself, asking him to repeat it. And praise, admire his smallest steps in this direction. First time use the moments of his desire so that he does not suspect you of trying to "rule" - otherwise he will get scared and hide again in his "shell".